In life it
is important to advocate for those who are unable to advocate for themselves.
As a society, we praise those who go out of their way to come to the aid of
others. The news channels are full of stories about ordinary people rescuing
cats and saving drowning children. We love the warm feeling we get inside when
people do good things. However fuzzy feelings aside, when push comes to shove
(sometimes literally) people are more likely to do absolutely NOTHING. This is
called the Bystander Effect.
Malala and
her father are some of the few people to overcome the bystander effect and take
action in a time of need. For Malala it was standing up to the Taliban’s
demented regime, but for common Americans what do we have to come against? One
thing is neglect/abuse.
In a scenario brought forth in class we
discussed an altercation between a young man and woman in the school parking
lot. The man was yelling at the woman and becoming physical with her. Although
approximately eighty people walked past this disturbing scene only one person stopped. This one person did
not say anything, but only gave the man a stern look, causing him to walk away
angrily. The girl was left visibly shaken up. Although an older woman stopped
and helped, 80 people did nothing.
What causes
our cowardly non-actions? Some would say self-preservation. If you intervene in
the situation the man is likely to yell at you or even assault you. Others
would say that it is not their business to intervene in someone else’s life.
However are we not all connected? Are we not all human? Do we not have some
sense of camaraderie with our fellow man? It is our responsibility to be an
activist. It is our responsibility to be advocates. Would you not want someone
to advocate for you if you could not? Of course you would!
Faith: Thanks for all your entries...especially this one. The last paragraph highlights your questions/statements quite provocatively. In fact your statement that it is "our responsibility" to be an activist and advocate makes it a mandate. The question is: Should we be activists and advocates only in times of concern (like the scenario presented) or perhaps also in times of calm. Thanks.
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